Saturday, December 28, 2019

Respect

I received a letter from an old colleague of mine, Paul G [CAPT, USN, Ret.].  He never used his rank around me, we were just Paul and Fritz in the office.  Nonetheless, I have the deepest respect for not only Paul's military service but the friendship we had together as attorneys and buddies.  He wanted to share an experience he had at the VA, and he wrote it down as soon as he got home.  I'm adding his letter to me here, unedited.  It's heartwarming.  In this season of goodwill, I hope it touches you as much as it touched me.  Thank you for sharing Paul!

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            Shortly before Christmas, I was at the VA hospital in Leavenworth, Kansas, getting a prescription filled.  As I sat in the waiting area, a gentleman wearing a KOREAN WAR VET ball cap with Purple Heart, Combat Infantryman, and 24th Infantry Division pins displayed walked in with his cane.  He complimented me on the lug soles of my boots (“Those ought to keep your feet out of the snow and ice”) and sat down next to me.  The half-assed historian that I am, I am always interested in hearing the stories, so I asked him about his army service.  He did not hesitate.  He allowed as how he was the youngest of 7 Missouri brothers, all but 1 of whom served in the military.  The other had a badly broken leg that was improperly set, leaving him with a limp and a medical deferment.  Their father had been drafted in 1917.  During basic training, his instructor asked the company who among them could read and write.  He and a handful of others raised their hands.  As a result, his father survived the Great War as a mail clerk, delivering bundles of letters in his sector of the western front on a Harley-Davidson, instead of getting shelled in the trenches.

            My new friend told me of one older brother who was an Army tanker in Europe during WWII.  He had a sweetheart back in Missouri whom he planned to marry after the war.  In 1944, his tank was hit.  He got out alive, but not unscathed.  He wrote to his girlfriend from the hospital, "You need to find someone who can do you some good.  My privates are all gone."  He remained on active duty, and was killed in action later that year.  Another veteran brother of his drank himself to death, dying in a VA hospital in the 1960s. The last conversation he had with that brother, the brother told him "come to the hospital and have a drink with me.  I think they serve milk."

            This gentleman proudly spoke of his own time in uniform.  At induction, he answered “no” when asked if he had graduated from high school.  The response was simple and automatic:  Infantry.  He expressed a great dislike for armor.  He rambled some (much less than I will should I make it to age 88), but I gathered that he was in an anti-tank unit.  He said he once got a clear shot at a North Korean (Russian) T-34 tank with a "three-and-a-half inch rocket."  He watched the round go downrange and hit its target. Then only smoke.  Afterwards he went to check it out, and looked inside the turret.  He declared that I didn’t want to know what he saw.  When I didn’t bite, he volunteered that the crew was "just hamburger."  He never peered inside a destroyed tank again.

            He demonstrated how he had washed his hands in the brackish water of the Yalu River.  He recounted with particular satisfaction that after the Inchon landing, the North Koreans were in retreat and he felt duty-bound to shoot every one of them he could get in his sights.  He raised an imaginary M-1 rifle to his shoulder as he said it, as if to show me how it’s done.  His war ended when a mortar round struck near him as his unit was on the march.  It killed the man in front of him, and the one behind him.  His wallet slowed the fragment that entered his hip.

            After recovering, he married, raised a family, and drove a delivery truck in Kansas City for 38 years.  Just when my number came up to go the pharmacy window, his eyes lit up as his wife approached and took a seat beside him.  She smiled as we exchanged season’s greetings, and I gave them both a salute – with my heart, if not with my hand.  As I stepped away, it was almost as though I could hear an aging Private Ryan ask of his wife at the cemetery in France:  “Tell me I’ve led a good life.  Tell me I’m a good man.”

            The greatest generation.  Don't miss a chance to hear their stories.

            
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